But now faith, hope, love, abide these three; but the greatest of these is love. 1 Corinthians 13:13

INTRO: Thinking about tonight’s talk has been bugging me all week
If I had to identify a reason why . . .
 – probably because I think of love as other-centered
 – and love isn’t lazy
So I come up against my own self-centeredness and laziness
 – in all sincerity, I wish I could just say, “Follow Barbara for a week”
– you would see care for others and selfless service in action Continue reading →

Love never fails; but if there are gifts of prophecy, they will be done away; if there are tongues, they will cease; if there is knowledge, it will be done away. For we know in part and we prophesy in part; but when the perfect comes, the partial will be done away.
When I was a child, I used to speak like a child, think like a child, reason like a child; when I became a man, I did away with childish things. For now we see in a mirror dimly, but then face to face; now I know in part, but then I will know fully just as I also have been fully known. 
1 Corinthians 13:8-12 

INTRO: Documentary, “Lord, Save Us From Your Followers” – interviews with average North Americans
What became painfully obvious: 

1. No one wants to listen to Christians–that is, their condemnation, dogma, and arguments
2. People are deeply impressed by acts of love and kindness Continue reading →

Love is patient, love is kind and is not jealous; love does not brag and is not arrogant, does not act unbecomingly; it does not seek its own, is not provoked, does not take into account a wrong suffered, does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices in the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. 1 Corinthians 13:4-7

INTRO: Those of us who started Reflexion were drawn together by a shared vision and passion

• Vision: That “spiritual journey” is a useful analogy to describe our life in Jesus
• Passon: Our desire to make continued progress in this journey, to move deeper into God and travel further in fulfilling his will Continue reading →

If I speak with tongues of men and of angels, but do not have love, I have become a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal. If I have the gift of prophecy, and know all mysteries and all knowledge; and if I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. And if I give all my possessions to feed the poor, and if I surrender my body to be burned, but do not have love, it profits me nothing. 1 Corinthians 13:1-3 

INTRO: I was thinking about Christian fundamentalism a few days ago 

• It occurred to me that the pioneers got it wrong
  The fundamentals they emphasized were beliefs (doctrines)
   – but those are not what is fundamental to the Christian life Continue reading →