From Death Into Life
Soon afterwards He went to a city called Nain; and His disciples were going along with Him, accompanied by a large crowd. Now as He approached the gate of the city, a dead man was being carried out, the only son of his mother, and she was a widow; and a sizeable crowd from the city was with her. Luke 7:11-12
In conversation with my oldest daughter yesterday, we realized that we both have faced some interesting challenges recently. At one point she asked me, “Has everyone suddenly gone crazy?” I suggested that it could be an experimental toxin the government released in the atmosphere over Orange County, but then more seriously answered, “We’re just seeing a different side of people that we thought we knew.”
I also explained how my dad’s death created a vacuum and since then a number of people have jumped in to try to fill it. Now this new, brighter light in which my dad lived has exposed characteristics that were not visible before. Some of these new discoveries have been disillusioning and heartbreaking.
Think of the variety of ways we know different people
Strangers – we only need to know the most basic facts
• is this person safe or unsafe?
• do I want or need to know these people better or not?
Acquaintances (neighbor, mail carrier, clerk)
• we know their names and a few of their traits and characteristics
Friends – we are familiar with a large range of their traits and characteristics
• also, we know something about how all these things fit together
• we refer to the composite of these qualities as “character” and “personality”
Family – we know all of the above, plus their background and “life-story”
• we also have some knowledge of the story they tell about themselves
• but we may not know their “inner life” as well as we assume
Lover, Spouse – (ideally) we know all of the above, but more intimately
• and we are known in the same way and to the same degree
The Lover is someone that was at first a Stranger
– we have come to know person better and our knowledge has been modified along the way
• we have discovered that some of our first impressions were wrong
– we discovered also their complexity and contradictions
• for example, “He is outgoing, but not all time or not with certain people”
The closest knowing of another requires years of experience
– it also requires interest, caring, and listening
– this is why we’re traveling with Jesus each Sunday
• and why this morning we arrive with him at this small village
Nain was not far from Nazareth (Jesus’ home town) Continue reading
