Sermon OTM – Matthew 7:12-14

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“So whatever you wish that others would do to you, do also to them, for this is the Law and the Prophets.
Enter by the narrow gate. For the gate is wide and the way is easy that leads to destruction, and those who enter by it are many. For the gate is narrow and the way is hard that leads to life, and those who find it are few” Matthew 7:12-14

Intro: You may hear something today you haven’t heard before

So I’m going to try to make this as clear as possible
– we need to consider the larger context that surrounds and informs verses 12-14
• not only the context of this chapter, but in Jesus’ entire Sermon
– the first big idea is this:
• the key to interpreting these verses is love
• it may not look like it at first, so we jump to other verses to shed light on these
◦ but those similarities turn out to be coincidence and not real connections
◦ if we stay with the themes of the Sermon, we will see how these verses fit

Three times in Matthew we find the phrase, “the Law and the Prophets”
– two of those times occur here in the Sermon
• in one other place he says “the Prophets and the Law” — reversing the order
◦ there Jesus is referring to John the Baptist’s ministry, and he said,
“For all the Prophets and the Law prophesied until John” (Mt. 11:13)
◦ so maybe that is why he mentioned the Prophets first
• otherwise, here is what Jesus says,

1. “Do not think that I have come to abolish the Law or the Prophets; I have not come to abolish them but to fulfill them” (Mt. 5:17)
2. “So whatever you wish that others would do to you, do also to them, for this is the Law and the Prophets” (Mt. 7:12)
3. “Teacher, which is the great commandment in the Law?” And he said to him, “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. This is the great and first commandment. And a second is like it: You shall love your neighbor as yourself. On these two commandments depend all the Law and the Prophets” (Mt. 22:36-40)
   • in the first quote Jesus adds, “unless your righteousness exceeds that of the scribes and Pharisees, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven”
     • we saw, that doesn’t mean we have to obey more rules,
     ◦ or we have to be more strict, or more religious than they were
     ◦ our righteousness must be of a different kind than the scribes’ and Pharisees’
     • ours must integrate both our heart and our actions
     ◦ we can’t put on our practice of righteousness for show
   • but the most important distinction is the nature of righteous
     • it is not primarily ethical or moral, but relational
     ◦ and that’s what we learn from the two other quotes
     ◦ the essence of the Law and Prophets is the way of love
     • Jesus takes love to an extreme degree: love your enemy
     ◦ love fulfills every law and every prophetic pronouncement
     “For the whole law is fulfilled in one word: ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself’” (Gal. 5:14)
     “Owe no one anything, except to love each other, for the one who loves another has fulfilled the law” (Ro. 13:8)
   • this is the righteousness that exceeds scribes and Pharisees
     • this is the background and context for our verses today
     • and that’s why I say, key to interpreting these verses is love

Jesus packs the essence of entire Sermon into a proverb
“So whatever you wish that others would do to you, do also to them, for this is the Law and the Prophets.
Matthew 7:12

A proverb is one of our most useful “memory tools”
– wisdom is packaged into a short verse, of generally two lines
• “A bird in the hand . . .” – “A stitch in time . . .”
◦ if you’re as old as I am, you probably know two dozen proverbs or more
• if I were to ask, “What is a simple way to love my neighbor as myself?”
◦ an easy reminder is,
“Whatever you wish that others would do to you, do also to them”
– the message is so clear, that I don’t need to explain it
• all we need is the reminder
◦ however, some people love to find (or create) complications
• for instance, a lawyer asked Jesus how to inherit eternal life
◦ Jesus proved that he already knew the answer, by asking him,
“What is written in the Law? How do you read it?” And he answered, “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind, and your neighbor as yourself” (Lk. 10:26-27)
◦ but after Jesus told him “You have answered correctly; do this, and you will live,” the lawyer, wanting to embarrass Jesus with a tricky question, asked him, “And who is my neighbor?”
• this is a classic maneuver – it even has a name: “equivocate”
◦ it creates problems where there are none
◦ lawyers are especially adept at using it (to confuse a witness or a jury)

Please bear with me, because I don’t mean to offend, but clarify
– when we quote the scripture, “Love your neighbor as yourself”
• many people will say, “But what if I hate myself?”
◦ they turn the quote into a psychological dilemma
◦ it suggests that we must first learn to love ourselves
• the Bible assumes that each of us do love ourselves
◦ only sometimes does biblical love refer to an emotion or feeling
◦ usually it refers to the way we behave toward someone or take care of others
“For no one ever hated [their] own body, but nourishes and cherishes it” (Ep. 5:29)
– if it’s true, that I don’t like myself, why not?
• is it because I want so much more for myself? believe I could be so much more?
◦ is it because I’m not satisfied with who I am, or pleased with what I am?
◦ these are all indications of our normal self-love
• in my deepest depression, when I just wanted to die, I may have felt like I hated myself,
◦ but it was because I loved myself that I could not stand to live in so much misery

If what I’ve said isn’t convincing, then forget it
– we can come at this another way
• let’s say you can’t love others as you love yourself
• well, Jesus has an alternative for you–a new commandment!
“A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another” (Jn. 13:34)
◦ (that’s enough to make me want to love others as myself! Jesus’ love for us cost him his life)
– Jesus hasn’t left room for excuses–as if we don’t know how to love
• the last thing we read last week was, as imperfect as we are, we still know how to give good gifts to our children
◦ being imperfect (evil) might be a valid excuse not to love
◦ but even still, we know what it means to do good
• we also know when someone has done something good for us
◦ and this can be something as simple as a pleasant smile

In these next two verses, Jesus does not change the subject
“Enter by the narrow gate. For the gate is wide and the way is easy that leads to destruction, and those who enter by it are many. For the gate s narrow and the way is hard that leads to life, and those who find it are few” Matthew 12:13-14

Jesus is still concerned with how we treat others
– that it is with love
• look, Jesus has already taught us, “Love your enemies”
• few of us are capable of doing this–or willing to do it
◦ and we’d never even consider if he had not said it
– Jesus instructions are clear; that is not the problem
• our difficulty is that it’s not easy to follow his instructions
◦ it’s like trying to squeeze through a narrow gate

Jesus is not an easy leader to follow
“If anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross and follow me” (Mt. 16:24)
– back in the days of the Jesus Movement, we sang this verse
• the words were put to a cute and lively tune,
• as if it were no big deal to die to ourselves and live for God
– the way of the Lord is hard – we don’t choose it because it’s easy,
• but because it is the only way to please God
◦ the only way to find and to be our true self
• Jesus is the way, the truth and the life
◦ in him we find truth, goodness, and beauty — and that is what we become

First, Jesus tells us, “Enter by the narrow gate”
– enter, where? – what new place are we moving into?
• perhaps the answer is in verse 21
“Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven . . . .”
Or, “. . . unless your righteousness exceeds that of the scribes and Pharisees, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven” (Mt. 5:20)
• Luke records a similar statement Jesus made in answer to a quest
“And someone said to him, ‘Lord, will those who are saved be few?’ And he said to them, ‘Strive to enter through the narrow door. For many, I tell you, will seek to enter and will not be able’” (Lk. 13:23-24)
◦ the other side of the narrow gate is life–the eternal life of the kingdom of heaven
– showing love to others is the narrow gate
• if we find it difficult to live out the teaching of Jesus, we’re probably on the right trail
• in the Scriptures, there are always two ways
◦ and we are always given the choice of which one to take

Conclusion: I wish I could offer my own life as a better example

I’m still learning to broaden the range of my love for others,
and I a frequently forgetting to do that
Jesus said that there are few who “find” their way to life
So if we’re having a hard time finding it, what can we do
Ask – the same as last week – ask for directions
Seek – when we’re around others, look for the opportunity
Knock – a door will open somewhere
and when it does, squeeze through